Happy Easter!

I hope everyone is enjoying their holiday weekend with their loved ones. We've been having some fun, easter activities around here. Yesterday it was coloring eggs, this morning we had the egg hunt and a few days ago we got the kids pictures with the big bunny. I remember going to downtown Lazarus as a kid and having breakfast with the Easter Bunny, seeing all the windows decorated and the displays of real ducklings and chicks. I wish there was something like that for our kids. I couldn't resist doing and informal photo shot when the kids were dressed up for the bunny picture, so I have to include those. You know, it's so easy to figure out what to dress little girls in for the holidays. Sadly, the boy section is lacking in holiday clothes. Our good friends have given us the most generous boxes of their sons old clothes and there's been an abundance of little sweater vests. I have to admit, I love these little vests on Andrew and I love Lily in these bright colors. Enjoy!

Outside Fun

Whirly

Twirly

Swirly

Curly

Fun!


These are some modern pinwheel I picked up at the toy store. They spin easily in the breeze as well as from any arm movement. We all had fun dancing around with them. They are made of nylon and cost 1.99 at Toys R Us. I think they'd make a nice little addition to an easter basket if you are looking for any suggestions.

On a different note, I bought Andrew this little green shirt because I liked the color. When I put it on him, I had visions of Charlie Brown. Anyone else see the Peanuts connection?

Enjoying spring

We've been enjoying all the benefits of spring. We've been to parks, the zoo and visiting outside with our neighbors. The weather isn't as fabulous as it's going to be, but I can't complain. This is one of the nicer Marchs I can remember. Lily has been making new friends in our neighborhood and continues to do well in school. Andrew is struggling with some new teeth, but otherwise is happy, active self. I'm gearing up for my final 9 weeks of school and Bill is enjoying some victories with his court cases. We are all looking forward to getting away a little for spring break.

Remembering Michael.........

Today we received some very, very sad news. Michael, the CCAI guide from Guangxi, unexpectedly passed away. While I never had the pleasure of meeting Michael in person, I can attest to his kindness as he graciously talked to me while Bill and Joe were in China getting Lily. Everyone in our travel group spoke so highly of him and had hoped to see him again at a Colorado reunion. He truly touched the lives of many and will be remembered so fondly as someone who helped us in uniting with our children.

Visiting with Travel Mates

This past weekend we had a chance to visit with two families from our 678 travel group. It was a wonderful weekend and we all had such fun catching up. There's something so special and unique about our connection. Our girls just have this connection and comfort level with each other that I can't explain. All I know is that I hope we can continue to get together over the years. Here are some photos. Enjoy!

May your paths.....

Today we took the kids to a park for a walk. The past few days have been the first real hint of spring. It's that time when it feels so good to be outside and you are reminded that fresh air, sun and moving can totally lift your spirits.

Anyway, Lily and Andrew got ahead of us and I just had to snap their picture. Even with a 4 year age gap, these two are such good companions. Every day they laugh, giggle, play and are often partners in crime. From time to time, I get the "Are they real brother and sister?" question If folks could see how they can push eachother's buttons, they would never bother to ask :)

As I watched them today, I thought about their futures. I do hope they remain close throughout the years. So, I found it fitting to use the quote "May your paths always lead you back to each other."

A Little Disney Magic......

What I wouldn't do to get away from the winter, head down to sunny Florida and take the family to Disney. Unfortunately, time, money and life just doesn't allow for that right now. That's why it was fun today to get a tiny bit of Disney magic in our own hometown.

For the past 2 years, we've taken Lily to see the Disney on Ice tour when it comes to town in February. She loves it and I love it too. This year, when we saw the ads., I just assumed we'd all go and Andrew would like it too. I didn't give it much thought until I started chatting with my friends and I got the "Ummm, you are going to take a 1 year old to Disney on Ice?" questions. This was said with a look that said "Melissa, you are crazy!"

Still, I really did want the whole family to go. We took reinforcements i.e. plenty of snacks, selected isle seats for a quick getaway and had the plan that one grown-up would take Andrew out to the lobby if need be. Well, we settled into our seats, the house lights went down and that was it. Andrew was mesmerized. He loved the show and sat on one of our laps for the whole thing. We gave the opportunity to walk around the lobby during intermission and he did great. Both kids were really well behaved and a joy to be with.

I even had their souvenir picture taken in a teacup. There's actually a funny back story (pun intended) to this picture. The cup is open in the back and there's a step for the kids to stand on. Well, Andrew and his little itty-bitty self, wasn't tall enough when standing on the step. The photographer directed me to duck down behind the cup and hold Andrew up. So that's what we did and amazingly we got a good picture. Afterwards, I thought about me as a mom down on my knees, ducking behind the scenes and boosting my child up in the air. I'm sure there's a metaphor for motherhood somewhere in there. All in all, it was a really fun day!

For my friends adopting from China....

I saw this on a list and had to pass it along:

You know you have adopted from China if

....you know that I-600 & I-171 aren't highways.

....you've been expecting a baby for over 3 years.

....you understand that it's 2006 in some parts of the world.

....you've "paid for" 3 citizenships, but never brought anyone into the U.S.

....you know that waiting for China has nothing to do with Dillards or dishes

....your homestudy is followed by a number (i.e. #3 or #4)

....you never know how many days next month will have

....you know that babies come in batches

....you've been fingerprinted four times, but never committed a crime

....you automatically assume everyone who is expecting is having a girl

....you own new clothing in 3 little sizes for all 4 seasons (because you don't know when or how big)

....you look twice when you see a lady bug

....you're more interested in what will happen in March 2006 than in March 2009

....you know people who understand when you talk about 2 day months & 5 day months

....your due date hasn't changed by days, but by years

....you know who the Rumor Queen is ... AND ... you don't know who she is

....you know that forecast doesn't have anything to do with the weather

....you've waited so long, they re-checked your fingerprints to see if they changed

....trying to understand why they're printing you again, you study your own fingerprints and wonder if fingerprints grow wrinkles

....when you speak of "that time of month" you're talking about CCAA updates & referrals

You might be adopting from China if you love someone you've never met with all your heart.

Some scrapbook pages.........

Life is just a bowl of ...........

New Year Traditions..........

Well, it's that time of the year again. It's time to celebrate Chinese New Year, also called Spring Festival. Today we got the kids dressed in their silks, met some friends for lunch and then headed over to our local Families with Children from China's celebration. Bill and I have attended this event for the past 5 years and many things have been consistent over time.

1. There's always fun shopping to do.


2. There are lots of fun crafts for the kids.


3. There are adorable performances by the children


4. There is always the traditional Lion Dance

which can lead to fear amongst the little ones......


5. The most wonderful thing at each and every celebration is the children.......

I don't think it'll ever get old looking at all the precious children and all the families that have been formed by adoption.

Andrew's first steps and Happy New Year

To ring in the New Year, Andrew decided to learn a new skill! He took his first real steps! He's been standing, cruising furniture and walking while holding our hands for a long time. We've seen the occasional step here and there that really were balance corrections.

While we were all sitting on the floor and playing together, Andrew just stood up and took 4 steps alone! We all cheered and he yelled too! I think he was just as surprised and stunned as we were. I ran and grabbed the camera to get the next steps recorded on video. We think this is pretty funny because he's so darn excited that he doesn't know how to respond! He yells with excitement, looks stunned and then giggles with us. All of it's pretty cute :)

What a fun way to start the Year of the Ox. Happy New year to everyone. May you all have a wonderful year full of great things!

One year ago today.........

We were basking in our unexpected referral of our baby boy! I can remember the "call" so well. Bill, Lily and I had just finished lunch and I was heading off to work. Tatianna, our case manager called just as I was warming up my car. I remember thinking she was calling us about an email we had received 2 times earlier in the week. I said something like "Did you tell her we already got the email?" Bill had a funny expression on his face and said "I think it might be more important, like our referral." My heart jumped just at the thought, but I so didn't want to get my hopes up.

Picking up the phone and feeling nervous I said "Hello?" Tatianna said "Melissa, I have good news. I have a referral for you!" Stunned, excited, and breathless, I said "I'm so surprised!" Tatianna replied "I know. I'm totally surprised too." She then went over the statistics. I became a parrot, repeating everything she said.
"It's a boy." -"It's a boy"
"He's 15 days old"--"He's 15 days old."
You get the idea:) For the next 2 hours, Bill and I were glued to our laptop, staring at 3 pictures, 3 documents and 1 video. Phone calls were made to grandparents and uncles and soon they arrived to join us.

It was such a fun, celebratory time. Grandmothers fussed over their new grandson claiming he was obviously a very bright baby. They claimed they could tell by how alert he was in video :) Copies of pictures were made and passed around and we all headed out to our favorite Chinese restaurant where we proudly showed off our newest family member's photo.

This week, my Taiwan agency has finally received a big batch of referrals and China appears to be on the brink of a bigger batch of referrals. I've seen my online friends experience the absolute amazing, life changing event of getting their referral. I truly believe some of my real-life friends are going to get their referrals from China in a matter of weeks and I can't wait.

My advice to all my friends is enjoy the ride, because there isn't anything that compares to it!
Andrew then:

Andrew now:

Baby, It's Cold Outside!

My Favorite Picture of the Kids

The picture at the top of the page is my favorite picture of the kids together. About 2 weeks before Christmas, I scheduled a photo session at Portrait Innovations. Two days before, I found the Chinese silk outfit for Andrew. Bill couldn't understand why I would want to buy it and I couldn't understand why Bill couldn't understand :) How could I resist such an adorable outfit? Plus, it gave me another reason to dress Lily in her gorgeous silks too. Anyway, at the last minute, I dressed the kids in their silk rather than their holiday outfits. Boy am I glad that I did because I just love this photo. If you happen to live near a Portrait Innnovations, I would highly recommend their 9.99 deal. That price will get you one session with at least 30 poses taken, 1 11x14, 2 8x10s, 4 5x7s, 4 3x5s and 36 wallets. Now, you'll be totally tempted to purchase more than one shot. I completely understand. However if you stick to your guns and get the one shot, you'll walk away with a great deal. Plus you can access the deal 4 times a year. So you'll probably see more of their work on this blog.

Our Boy Turns One!

Today our precious little guy turns one! It's hard to believe he's been with us for almost 6 months and he's officially moving onto the toddler stage. Well, given his extreme mobility at a young age, toddlerhood doesn't seem that hard to believe :) I know as a mom, I'm supposed to feel weepy about this milestone, but I don't. It's been a priveledge to get Andrew at such a young age and spend the past six months with him. I wouldn't trade it for the world. Yet, I also think 1 is such a fun age. Andrew is so interactive, funny and silly. Sure he gets into a million things before his morning nap, but boy can he grab my heart with one toothy grin and spontaneous hug. He's a charmer that little Andrew.

Due to our many holiday family gatherings, playdates and visits with friends, we actually opted for a low key celebration today. I can see how a January 3rd birthday could be challenging down the road. Untill he's more aware of dates, I believe we'll be pushing the birthday celebrations to later in January. Today we took the kids up to spend time with Great-Grandma and Great Uncle Bob. We picked up a little teeny-tiny cake and let Andrew enjoy his first piece. I think this may be the first time Andrew has tasted chocolate and let me tell you, he's a fan :) I'm pretty sure if he could request it for his bigger party, he would. Here are a few pictures of our adorable little man enjoying the cake!